Autism in girls and boys:

While some girls may have clear symptoms of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) like having trouble in language or communication, it may be harder to see the signs in others. It is particularly common among females at the high-functioning end of the spectrum. Though symptoms of autism in girls are not very different from those in boys, girls are more likely to camouflage or hide their symptoms.

Moreover, autistic boys and autistic girls may have the same symptoms like difficulty in communication, stimming or struggling with speech. It is not necessary that boys and girls on the spectrum have the same symptoms, however, girls are less likely to be diagnosed as autistic.

Why autistic girls may be underdiagnosed

Girls are underdiagnosed for a variety of reasons. They may be able to mask or camouflage their symptoms.

  • They may mimic the social behavior of others
  • Force themselves to make eye contact during conversations
  • Imitate gestures and expressions
  • May prepare a conversation or a joke ahead of interacting with people

Their symptoms may also be misinterpreted as something else or stereotypes may get in the way of recognition. Girls are more likely to control their behavior in public.

Moreover, findings suggest that there are differences in the brains of girls and boys on the spectrum. Brain imaging shows that autistic girls seem to have less of a disruption in the area of the brain that processes social information. That is, they are more likely to understand social expectations, even if they cannot fully meet them. Girls put more time and energy into learning social norms.

A girl who seems shy and withdrawn may be seen as feminine, but the same would be taken as a sign in boys.

Another example is if a girl seems unengaged, she is often called a “dreamer”, but the same behaviors lead to autism help for boys.

Signs of autism in girls:

  • Love routines
  • Low frustration level
  • Sensitive to sensory challenges
  • Struggles with communication
  • Intense interests
  • High Depression
  • Hard time fitting in
  • Sleep issues
  • Stimming

Love routines

Autistic girls love routines. Any kind of deviation from routine may leave them stressed or confused. They may carry routines such as reading for 20 minutes before bedtime or they may develop their own routines. Routine is a way for them to manage stress and is also a way for them to take control of their surroundings.

Low frustration level

An autistic female may find it hard to manage feelings and may be calm one second and, in a rage, the next. She can get easily overwhelmed and frustrated. She may have sudden tantrums or meltdowns, when she is stressed or feels she does not have enough time to finish what she wants.


Sensitive to sensory challenges

An autistic girl may be highly sensitive to her environment. She may be unusually sensitive to sensory challenges such as bright lights, strong smells or loud noise. Sensations that others may not even notice such as sounds of lawnmowers or washing machines, or the smell of perfume or food items may be difficult for her to just ignore.

Struggles with communication

An autistic girl may find communication to be increasingly difficult. She may lack skills involved with social communication such as hand gestures, making eye contact or understanding whether someone is serious or just joking. Due to his, she may have a hard time making friends or interacting with people.

However, they engage in social camouflaging when they are having difficulty and mimic how other girls interact.